The 10 worst things to say to your children:

(from Antonia Van Der Meer)

Here are 10 statements from Antonia Van Der Meer, that most of us are familiar with, and that experts agree are most harmful to our children:

Recommended Reading

• Children's Pillow Talk - Irish Times

• When a Parent’s ‘I Love You’ Means ‘Do as I Say’ - New York Times

• Talk to your sleeping child - Your Child magazine (PDF)

• Newborns pick up language in the womb - Discovery Channel

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